Monday, June 30, 2008

How long more?

How long more do I have to live through this agony. Yes, I call it agony. It pisses me off that I'm such a slow learner. I'm keen honestly. I want to do my job well, but why do I always fail myself?. I've been showing this cramped up face for quite a while now, and it doesn't reflect good on me though. 3 sector. I need to survive this. I believe I'm able to choose my role for today, and I must choose wisely. I'm not going to avoid it this time round, cus eventually one fine day, I'll face it again. So why not take the chance now and GO FOR IT. I'm prepared to receive negative vibes. I'm all ready. Today I don't wanna be blur anymore. I wanna prove to them that I can make it. I will not back out. I will FACE IT!. I know Im a slow learner, but Im WILLING TO LEARN!. YES, try and try. I'm not gonna give up. Im not gonna go to the clinic for the dumb MC, Im gonna face it today. Yes, positive vibes please be with me today, keep me cheerful throughout. Let me have the confidence, let me count my meals properly. Let me have the WILLPOWER! Teamwork, communications, take the humble pie. Use the magic words!. Yes, shall continue tonight after I'm back. LEARN, LEARN, LEARN. CANNOT BE SHY OR WHATSOEVER. MOVE!, PROGRESS~!

Now I feel the vibes man, give it to me!.
I'm not going to disappoint myself !!, I wanna change!!

Friday, June 27, 2008

Solo

This is awfully scary. I'm still unfamiliar with my stuffs. Please let things turn out smoothly today. Think fast act fast.
1350 Balikpapan. UGH. Breathe in breathe out. 3 or 10 deep breaths man. OMG. Nervous, nervous..NERVOUS!!
I've met nice people all along, they taught me alot, it's just me. Whether I know how to apply what I learn or not. This is so challenging. I'm prepared to get an earful.

Challenge Everything.

LOVE ME PLEASE.omg.

to be continued tonight...

handle me with care. ARGH.

jo.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

1 more day!

One more day to my off day. Can't wait can't wait!!. Yesterday was bad, turbulence was bad, storm. Hmm, anyway looking forward to tomorrow ;) OFF DAY! ROAR!!!!!!!
People were nice, in a way. Learnt,learn,learning. Everyday there will be something new for me to learn. Hear me do my announcements man. It's like wth?. LOL. I read passage that wasn't suppose to be read, anyway I doubt they know/hear what I was saying, they were too busy taking out their belongings and all.

Counting down 4 more days. Woots` :)

Hmm, which is the website to use for my blog man. There's like so many, wordpress, LJ, Multiply,etc. Apparently I seem to have all! lol. Just that I update more in Blogger.Random stuff of mine.
Off and away once again.

Ciaoz

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Eve of Grad

Tomorrow's our graduation, our big day. I'm running out of time. All of us will go on our seperate ways, doing solo from Saturday onwards. So many thoughts ran through my mind, INDEPENDENCE, RESPONSIBILITY. It's time, that I carried out these duties on my own. No more escaping, no more faking MC's. This aint odd jobs which I could just choose to leave. We signed the bond, it's as though we've sold our souls to the devil.

" We are the best, and we'll STRIVE to stay the best..."

Nights.



Wednesday, June 18, 2008

If you just realise..

Happen to see this on someone's blog, and I remembered receiving this email before, and now as I read it again, it seriously made me teared too...


"On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy.
I was a strong and a happy groom.This was the scene of ten years ago.
The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid,I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affections between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.Dew came into my life.
It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her.Dew said, You are the kind of man who best draws girls eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn t help doing so, I moved Dew's hand aside and said, You go to select some furniture,O.K.? I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised her to go and see with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me.However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt. Honestly,she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew’s body. This was the means of my entertainment.One day I said to her in a slight joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking with her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.Once again, Dew said to me, Honey, divorce her, O.K.? Then we will be able to live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got somethingto tell you, I said.She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want to divorce. I raised a serious topic calmly.She didn t seem to be much annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? . I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer turned her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!At that night, we didn t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart.The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said.Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.A late night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fell asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn t want anything from me,but I was supposed to give her one months time before divorce, and in the month's time we must live as normal life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn t want him to see our marriage was broken.She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day?This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me.I nodded and said, I remember . You carried me in your arms , she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage with a romantic form.I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel uncomfortable.My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out for the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for bus, I drove to office.On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face.On the third day, she whispered to me, The outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there.On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vaguer.On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as,where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc.I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger.I didn t tell Dew about this.I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now.She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, All my dresses have grown fatter. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not becauseI was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart.Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it s time to carry mum out. He said.To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom,through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step.Our son had gone to school. She said, Actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old.I held her tightly and said, Both you and I didn't notice that our life was lack of such intimacy.I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, Sorry Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry Dew, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn t love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into cry. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me to write the greeting words on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old."

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Sinful

Im back! hahas, been eating alot lately, so much so that I feel the dark side coming back to me. UGH.

Instead of 27th, now I've got to wait till the 28th. =( Waiting and waiting. Patience.
So now we're down with 2 fellas. Both in the same company different platoon. HA! how cool is that.
Now I feel so free, I dont know what to do at times too. I'll just stare blankly literally.
Went out with Sher and gang last night to some Sushi place at Wheellock, the food was awesome, but I just dont seem to have appetite. But I woke up this morning, staring at a bloated face in the mirror. OH NO!! Need more joggings!!. ZZZZzz

Pics updated later..
Ciaoz!
;)

Monday, June 09, 2008

Politics.

Donald T is awesome. So if you think you're right, answer the question straight to the point. Who would you rather choose to have on your team?, wow, that struck Moona. He is awesome, he just needs your direct answer no long story no nothing, no life experience no nothing. He just wants your answer straight. Wow, this is so cool, I cant even answer these questions myself, seriously.



Only the best ones stay, this is a scheming show man. Surprisingly Moona's fired. Woah.





[ Grumpy me these days. ]

Friday, June 06, 2008

DELAY

Something which I dread most.. =(
DELAY!!

So im waiting for time to pass now. Till 1145 hrs. =(

Weekends screwed.